I have a crush
I know a lot of you are too young to even know what a crush is. My crush is on my accountant but it isnt a boyfriend girlfriend crush it is a daddy/daughter crush. When I am with him all I want to do is be 11, when I know I am going to visit him I always wear a pick shirt. I am sure he thinks I am nuts. I dont flirt with him but (I am sure it is in my head) he is always making super long eye contact with me. I would never date him but boy would I love to spend daddy/daughter time with him.
Has this ever happened to anyone? Does anyone kind of understand?
I know a lot of you are too young to even know what a crush is. My crush is on my accountant but it isnt a boyfriend girlfriend crush it is a daddy/daughter crush. When I am with him all I want to do is be 11, when I know I am going to visit him I always wear a pick shirt. I am sure he thinks I am nuts. I dont flirt with him but (I am sure it is in my head) he is always making super long eye contact with me. I would never date him but boy would I love to spend daddy/daughter time with him.
Has this ever happened to anyone? Does anyone kind of understand?
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Fri, December 7, 2007 - 3:28 PMSnacky and the Accountant sitting in a tree... :) -
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Fri, December 7, 2007 - 3:34 PMlol....nooooo
To make things even umm more nuts I have known him since I was 15 and he went to school with my dad (bio) -
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Fri, December 7, 2007 - 3:39 PMJust kidding Snacky. What did you think of this man when you were RT 15 and you knew him? -
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Fri, December 7, 2007 - 3:46 PMI was IN LOVE WITH HIM. Jush head over heals, more as a boyfriend -but I couldnt tell any of my friends because he was older and I know they would have all made fun of me.
I just wonder if he is sending the vibe or if it as all in my head. He always says "you are such a nice young lady" and touches the small of my back when I leave.
I am not going to do anything but Well it is nice to talk about it. Have you ever had a little girl crush? I mean not someone you want as a boyfriend or husband just as a dad?
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Fri, December 7, 2007 - 4:01 PMI wouldn't doubt he is sending the vibe to you. Why is he "as a daddy only" crush? What is different about him than someone who can be BF and Daddy?
I have had a couple little girl crushes, but they always are on a really strict & stern type and it's like I want my sweetness and little girlyness to bring out their softer side. The "as a daddy only" crush is the man that I can picture being tough with everyone else in the world and tender only with me. I could never actually have a BF or Hubby who was such a meanie to everybody.
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Fri, December 7, 2007 - 4:10 PMI am so glad to hear someone else has had little girl crushes!
Hmm well I see him as a daddy only because we have nothing in common. And well I dont think I could ever stand up to him, in a romance/personal way. And i think he would be such a good dad that I would never want to leave his side as a little girl. A bf is someone who i can be both a grown up and little girl with. My mind just wont let me see my accountant as a normal guy-It makes me feel crazy!
He is a stern/strict type but in a quite I can out smart you way. You would love him!
Thanks for talking I feel less nuts -
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Fri, December 7, 2007 - 4:44 PMMy old german professor. OMG! I had wished he was my Daddy for a while. He has such a stern look to him and if I skipped class or something, he'd admonish me for it. I had him twice and I could never concentrate in his classes. There was one time where we were reading something out loud and everyone mispronounced the word in such a way that it sounded like the German word for pussy. I kept giggling and he looked at me very seriously and kept asking me, "Frau Neubauer, kennen Sie das wort 'scheide'?" over and over again. Which means do you know the word pussy? IT was uncomfortable but in such a good way. It was weird b/c no one else in the class knew.
So yea, major daddy crush on him. He had blue eyes that pierced right through me. I would always fantasize that he'd take me into his office and spank me for being late or something. heheheh. -
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Fri, December 7, 2007 - 9:24 PMMy fifth grade teacher....he was so cute.....but it was just a Daddy crush, there have been a few rock star type Daddy crushes too, but I am WAY too embarrassed to name them.
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Mon, December 10, 2007 - 4:48 PMmy life sci teacher was super cute too, but i had more then a daddy crush on him
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Mon, December 10, 2007 - 4:42 PMGreat story appliejax! :) Wish I spoke German. My RT Father did, but I never learned.
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Mon, December 10, 2007 - 4:49 PMhehe, I travel to dresden and Munich about 3 times a year, german men Woo Hoo. -
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Mon, December 10, 2007 - 10:14 PMyea, he was attractive. My whole family on my rt dad's side is german. My grandfather came over when he was very little. My brother speaks German too.
Snacky, you sure are lucky. I went to Germany once, when I was 15. I was supposed to go to school over there, but that was right after we went to war with Iraq and they decided they didn't want any Americans over there that year. (The school that is. We didn't get any German students or speakers either.)
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Mon, December 31, 2007 - 3:26 PMi have a new little big crush on alton brown from TV -
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Mon, December 31, 2007 - 4:52 PMOMG, i had the BIGGEST little girl crush on a teacher in high school. I had him my freshman and junior years. It wasn't until my junior year that this tiny crush burst into the biggest crush. LOL i had him for history that year, and it was his favorite subject to teach so he totally nurtured this class and made it fun with tons of cool activities and introspective essays, etc. He put an energy out in this class that said "thishistory class is my baby, and i am it's creator and keeper ("daddy") and i nurture and love it." well, needless to say, i picked up on this energy and tons of crazy feelings started stiring, and i fantasized that it was just him and me, daddy/little girl, teacher/student, and all kinds of other inspiring couplings between us. when it came to assignments, i was always trying to gain his approval in a sort of "Daddy! Look what i did/made for you!" I got an honest to god real feeling of jealousy when he paid too much attention to the other kids (it was mild, but it was REAL). It was the last class of the day, and when school let out, i almost always stayed with him after (i had an hour long wait for my bus that year). we would just talk and talk like old friends about all kinds of things (books, music, life in general, goals, etc). Towards the end of my junior year, i decided to test out early, and when i left i was so sad!! i visited his classroom after school hours pretty regularly for a while, and we would always just talk and he would tell me about cool experiments he had planned for his science class, and when he did, i always imagined us together as daddy/little girl, he wakes me up with breakfast in bed for the two of us, we watch saturday morning cartoons, then we get ready for our day. he takes me to a museum of natural history and he teaches me tons of things while we're there. he tests me sometimes by asking me questions, and when i got the answer right, he gave me a sticker or even something bigger like a new keychain for my backpack! after we see all the things in the museum, we visit the gift shop and he buys us a science experiment kit that we can do together sometime! then we have lunch and for dessert, we share a piece of ice cream cake!
Yeah......he always seemed to inspire my Little. *blushes* :)
....and i hadn't thought about it for several years until now! hehehehe.... :)
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Mon, December 31, 2007 - 10:01 PMHe'd be a great Daddy. He'd tell you about everything you eat. -
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Tue, May 13, 2008 - 8:52 PMi jut cross posted this so apple you secret is spreading -sorrrrry i forgot about your crush story before i cross posted :( -
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Tue, May 13, 2008 - 8:57 PMit's okay snacky....i don't mind. thank you though....i forgive you!!! hehehehehe *hugs*
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Wed, May 14, 2008 - 8:30 AMI don't know if I could like a guy (or a girl) as a daddy (or a mommy) if I didn't like him (or her) as a guy (or chick). I do like to play with littles I'm not really attracted to, though. I think for a mommy or daddy it's just part of the special bond that only comes with age *play* and not actually being a kid. Or maybe I'm just into dark age play.
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Wed, May 14, 2008 - 8:55 AMi need to be attracted to the little...
- not interested in being a little so that does not matter...
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Wed, May 14, 2008 - 11:55 AMI think it's about 50%, yes. :-)
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Wed, May 14, 2008 - 9:53 AMI NEED to be desired by my Daddy....
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Wed, May 14, 2008 - 1:51 PMi COMPLETETLY understand.